“Why Does God Care Who I Sleep With?”

by | Aug 8, 2023 | WGA Blog

If I could choose one book on the topic of Christian sexuality that I think everyone should read, it would be “Why Does God Care Who I Sleep With” by Sam Allberry. It is the book I most often recommend to parents, pastors and youth leaders, as well as to men and women who have questions about their own sexuality.

What I love most about the book is that it is vision casting and offers a beautiful glimpse into what God designed sex and sexuality for. Different from many books, this is a book about what is good and right, rather than focusing on what is wrong and problematic. It offers language that is helpful to those who are trying to teach others about the beauty of sex and its rightful purpose.

Here’s a brief description of the book…

“Christians are increasingly seen as outdated, restrictive and judgmental when it comes to sex before marriage, cohabitation and homosexuality. In fact for many people, this issue is one of the biggest barriers for them considering Christianity. Sam Allberry, author of many books including Is God Anti-gay sets out God’s good design for the expression of human sexuality, showing that God himself is love and that only he can satisfy our deepest desires. It is a great reminder of the Bible’s positive blueprint for love, sex and marriage and ideal for giving away to people who may see this as a stumbling block for belief.”

I encourage you to pick up a copies of the book for yourself, your pastor, and the youth leaders in your life!

You can pick up a copy here.

Roger Jones

Roger Jones

Executive Director

In the spring of 1995, the conflict Roger felt between his faith and his sexuality, as well as an addiction to pornography, led him to WGA. His personal journey has provided him unique insights into sexuality and the pain of adversity, which he shares through his testimony, facilitation of small groups, writing and public speaking.

Roger began working with WGA in October of 1996 as the Assistant office Manager. Since that time, he has worn many hats and served in several different positions, including Assistant Program Director and Operations Director. In April of 2007, Roger assumed the position of Executive Director.

Roger attended West Texas A&M University, where he studied Music Business. Much of his training has been “on the job,” where he was mentored by the ministry’s Founder, Mary Heathman, and the Program Director, Scott Kingry. He holds a BA from West Texas A&M University.

Roger, his wife Jill, and their daughter Julia and son William, attend Celebration Community Church where Jill serves as Senior Pastor.

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